How to Write a Confession Letter to Your Crush

According to a case study of love letter writing, love letter allows the writer to express their feelings in an easier and a comfortable manner than in the presence of their beloved.
Mate selection can be a hardwork but as a man, it is your nature to do the chasing. If you opt-in for love letter to reduce the workload, studies support your choice.
As someone who has written several love letters and poems, I listed 9 most guaranteed steps to write a love letter to your crush in this article. You’ll never be single again.
Starting a confession letter | Confession letter examples |
1. Start with a heartfelt greeting | To my dearest, To my [name], My friend who sparks my day, To the only damsel who has my heart |
2. Make your introduction grab her attention | I am delighted you will read this letter to know how I feel about you. |
3. Express your feelings for her in details and reason for writing | I am soaked in the times we spend together, amazed at your intellect and conduct. I want to be a part of your life. |
4. Ask her on date at the end of the letter | I am occupied, this weekend I’ll be free. Meet me at Papa Dubois’s Pizza 8pm Saturday, I learned they have great taste. Yet to take a bite, we should do so together. |
5. Take time to read through your crush letter | Adjust to your desire before transferring to final paper. Avoid grammar error, and spelling mistake. |
6. Package letter neatly and post or hand over yourself | Get a quality paper, Fold it gently, Use colorful envelop. |
1. Write an Attention-Grabbing Salutation

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To start a love letter that sends a lasting statement; start with an attention-grabbing salutation. Make it catchy. Don’t underestimate the use of your crush’s name.
- Dear Sarah
- To my dearest
- To my [name]
- To my dear [name]
- My friend who sparks my day
- To the only damsel who has my heart
- Love of my life
Your salutation is a greeting, it must be warm and welcoming to convince your crush to read the letter.
- Write or type the salutation in a styled font
- Use her first and last name or start with dear or any fancy word
- You can use a phrase to address her
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2. Write an In-depth Introduction

First paragraph is equally important as salutation and weighs as the body of the letter. Your introduction is like the summary of your business plan.
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- Draft the letter before transferring to original paper
- Write one paragraph
- End the sentence with a call to action (CTA) which will make her want to read the body paragraph
Format A (Assumes you don’t often see her)
Dear [her name],
It’s [your name], [where you met], and a little [juice added] + [call to action].
Dear Sarah Mathews,
It’s Michael Truth, we met at Vodafone café, Ho, few days ago. Ever since, my thoughts are flooded with the entirety of your being. Give heed to my heartily words.
Format B (Assumes you often see her and will deliver the letter personally)
Dear [her name],
express [how you feel about her], [call to action].
Dear Sarah Mathews, if you have a moment, let my letter occupy you at your coffee table. This is not to talk about your beauty, though I can rewind that a thousand times. I am soaked in the times we spend together, amazed at your intellect and conduct. I am asking to be a part of your life as long as time will allow.
Dear Pearl,
I am delighted you will read this letter to know how I feel about you. I have long to tell you my deep attraction for you but you are always surrounded by friends. Lend me a moment of your time.
- Avoid long and difficult words
- Use every day English
- If you don’t meet often, remind her how you met
- Make her know why you are writing in the beginning paragraph
- Relax and figure out how to structure your diction pertaining to your feelings
3. Describe how you feel about her

Add one or two paragraphs pointing out how you feel about her. Make it clear how you feel each time you see her or when she comes to mind.
- Tell her what she means to you and what you want from her
- Next is the detail of why you writing. Go straight to the point
- Don’t be scared of rejection. If she says no, it isn’t the end of the world
- You may arrange a date in the letter. Asking her to meet you in a restaurant or bar for soda or a fun place to spend time together
[Salut] Dear Sarah Mathews,
[intro] It’s Michael Truth, we met at Vodafone café, Ho few days ago. Ever since, my thoughts are flooded with the entirety of your being. Give heed to my heartily words.
[body] I returned severally to same spot with hope of running into you. It’s been hard concentrating on myself and activities since we met. What frustrates my mind more is the thought of not seeing you again. I rebuke such negativity and fight with hope of meeting you.
When I finally found a way to reach you, I decided not to wait a second to write. I would be humbled than honored to see your beautiful face and one more time listen to your angelic voice.
4. Ask your crush out

[Con] Before I go, I am grateful for your company and the nice things you said about your family and friends.
I’d like us to get together and have some soda and talk about us. My soul deeply seeks your attention.
I await you. See you soon.
Michael Truth
- Closing paragraph should include your expectations
- State what the next action should be
- Include location to meet if you have any in mind
- Remind her you are expecting an action on her side too
- Tell her how it will be great if you can spend some time together and talk
5. Read the letter through

Dear Sarah Mathews,
It’s Michael Truth, we met at Vodafone café, Ho few days ago. Ever since, my thoughts are flooded with the entirety of your being. Give heed to my heartily words.
I returned severally to same spot with hope of running into you. It’s been hard concentrating on myself and activities since we met. What frustrates my mind more is the thought of not seeing you again. I rebuke such negativity and fight with hope of meeting you.
When I finally found a way to reach you, I decided not to wait a second to write. I would be humbled than honored to see your beautiful face and one more time listen to your angelic voice.
Before I go, I am grateful for your company and the nice things you told me about your family and friends the other day.
I’d like us to get together and have some soda and talk about us. My soul deeply seeks your attention.
I await you. See you soon.
Michael Truth
6. Package the letter nicely

In your final work, don’t leave anything canceled. Get a new sheet if you do, rewrite the letter. You may type and print the letter and also add some designs to make it attractive.
- Step #1: Get an official paper or design paper
- Step #2: Transfer the draft neatly or print the letter
- Step #3: Fold it gently. It could be in four folds.
- Step #4: Get an official envelop, or colorful designed envelop
- Step #5: Address it
- Step #6: Post it or meet him or her in person and deliver it
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