How to Write A Love Letter to Your Crush

Have you ever rehearsed a “game over” pickup line just to get in front of your crush to have empty head left over your shoulders? Or an introvert who coils at the sight of his crush. Why not write a love letter?

Greet your crush with warm words. Write a call to action in the opening paragraph. Be honest with your intention, her influence on you, and talk about your expectations. Package letter neatly to deliver.

Steps for writing a letter to your crushExamples of the steps in writing a crush letter
1. Start with a heartfelt greetingTo my dearest, To my [name], My friend who sparks my day,
To the only damsel who has my heart
2. Make your introduction grab her attention I am delighted you will read this letter to know how I feel about you.
3. Express your feelings for her in details and reason for writingI am soaked in the times we spend together, amazed at your intellect and conduct. I want to be a part of your life
4. Ask her on date at the end of the letter I am occupied, weekend I’ll be free, meet me at Papa Dubois’s Pizza 8pm Saturday, I learned they have great taste. Yet to take a bit, we should do so together.
5. Take time to read through your crush letterAdjust to your desire before transferring to final paper
6. Package letter neatly and post or hand over yourselfGet a quality paper, Fold it gently, Use colorful envelop
Table 1.1: How to Write A Love Letter to Your Crush Cheat Table

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1. Write an Attention-Grabbing Salutation

Salutation

“In order to express inner feelings to someone special, the most appropriate way one can opt is to write him/her a love letter.”

“It allows writer to express feelings in an easier and a comfortable manner than in the presence of his/her beloved.” (A Case Study of Love Letter Writing).

To make a lasting statement with your letter, start with an attention-grabbing salutation. Make it catchy. Don’t underestimate the use of his or her name. But spice it with “dear, to my [name]” etc.

  • Dear Sarah
  • To my dearest
  • To my [name]
  • To my dear [name]
  • My friend who sparks my day
  • To the only damsel who has my heart
  • Love of my life

Your salutation is a greeting, it must be warm and welcoming to convince your crush to read the letter.

  • Write or type the salutation in a styled font
  • Use her first and last name or start with dear or any fancy word
  • You can use a phrase to address her

2. Write an In-depth Introduction

Introduction

First paragraph is equally important as salutation and weighs as the body of the letter. Your introduction is like the summary of your business plan.

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  • Draft the letter before transferring to original paper
  • Write one paragraph
  • End the sentence with a call to action (CTA) which will make her want to read the body paragraph

Format A (Assumes you don’t often see her)

Dear [her name],
It’s [your name], [where you met], and a little [juice added] + [call to action].

Dear Sarah Mathews,
It’s Michael Truth, we met at Vodafone café, Ho, few days ago. Ever since, my thoughts are flooded with the entirety of your being. Give heed to my heartily words.

Format B (Assumes you often see her and will deliver the letter personally)

Dear [her name],
express [how you feel about him/her], [call to action].

Dear Sarah Mathews, if you have a moment, let my letter occupy you at your coffee table. This is not to talk about your beauty, though I can rewind that a thousand times. I am soaked in the times we spend together, amazed at your intellect and conduct. I am asking to be a part of your life as long as time will allow.

Dear Pearl,
I am delighted you will read this letter to know how I feel about you. I have long to tell you my deep attraction for you but you are always surrounded by friends. Lend me a moment of your time.

  • Avoid long and difficult words
  • Use every day English
  • If you don’t meet often, remind her how you met
  • Make her know why you are writing in the beginning paragraph
  • Relax and figure out how to structure your diction pertaining to your feelings

3. A Body Paragraph Describing How You Feel

Body of the letter

Add one or two paragraphs pointing out how you feel about her. Make it clear how you feel each time you see her or when she comes to mind.

  • Tell her what she means to you and what you want from her
  • Next is the detail of why you writing. Go straight to the point
  • Don’t be scared of rejection. If she says no, it isn’t the end of the world
  • You may arrange a date in the letter. Asking her to meet you in a restaurant or bar for soda or a fun place to spend time together

[Salut] Dear Sarah Mathews,

[intro] It’s Michael Truth, we met at Vodafone café, Ho few days ago. Ever since, my thoughts are flooded with the entirety of your being. Give heed to my heartily words.

[body] I returned severally to same spot with hope of running into you. It’s been hard concentrating on myself and activities since we met. What frustrates my mind more is the thought of not seeing you again. I rebuke such negativity and fight with hope of meeting you.

When I finally found a way to reach you, I decided not to wait a second to write. I would be humbled than honored to see your beautiful face and one more time listen to your angelic voice.

4. Conclude the Letter with Your Expectations

Conclusion

[Con] Before I go, I am grateful for your company and the nice things you said about your family and friends.

I’d like us to get together and have some soda and talk about us. My soul deeply seeks your attention.

I await you. See you soon.

Michael Truth

  • Closing paragraph should include your expectations
  • State what the next action should be
  • Include location to meet if you have any in mind
  • Remind her you are expecting an action on her side too
  • Tell her how it will be great if you can spend some time together and talk

5. Read the Complete Letter Through

Dear Sarah Mathews,

It’s Michael Truth, we met at Vodafone café, Ho few days ago. Ever since, my thoughts are flooded with the entirety of your being. Give heed to my heartily words.

I returned severally to same spot with hope of running into you. It’s been hard concentrating on myself and activities since we met. What frustrates my mind more is the thought of not seeing you again. I rebuke such negativity and fight with hope of meeting you.

When I finally found a way to reach you, I decided not to wait a second to write. I would be humbled than honored to see your beautiful face and one more time listen to your angelic voice.

Before I go, I am grateful for your company and the nice things you told me about your family and friends the other day.
I’d like us to get together and have some soda and talk about us. My soul deeply seeks your attention.

I await you. See you soon.

Michael Truth

6. Package the Letter and Deliver Via Post or in Person

Package and delivery

In your final work, don’t leave anything canceled. Get a new sheet if you do, rewrite the letter. You may type and print the letter and also add some designs to make it attractive.

  • Step #1: Get an official paper or design paper
  • Step #2: Transfer the draft neatly or print the letter
  • Step #3: Fold it gently. It could be in four folds.
  • Step #4: Get an official envelop, or colorful designed envelop
  • Step #5: Address it
  • Step #6: Post it or meet him or her in person and deliver it

If you prefer doing this electronically, ask for her email or phone number personally or send her a message on social media.

How to Write A Love Letter Expressing Your Love to Your Partner

Writing love letter to your partner

“Moreover, writing one’s strong emotional feelings on paper or some other permanent form is an expression itself of love and desire. It also shows the standing of the beloved and supports the lover’s emotions.” (Fatima Zafar Baig & Naveed Ahmed).

1. Use Love Letter Writing in Eighteenth Century Style

Dr. Sally Holloway, Vice Chancellor’s Research Fellow in History & History of Art at Oxford Brookes University shares on Valentine’s Day (2022) how love letter writing was approached in the eighteenth century.

Choice of Paper Type to Use

In the olden days, love letter writers’ sort after best quality papers for their letters.

Use the most decorative or appealing paper you could find to make your love letter more attractive and as a special gift to the reader.

“Men and women writing love letters used the best quality paper that they could afford, meaning the thickest and whitest paper available. If they had the means, writers often used special paper that had been gilded around the edges using gold leaf.” (Dr. Sally Holloway).

2. Be Yourself as You Write the Letter

Be authentic

Jen Adams, associate professor of communication and theatre who studied 400 love letters written in the 1930s for her doctoral dissertation found that, the writers were authentic. (DePauw University).

“You should try to be as authentic in representing yourself and your feelings as you possibly can.”

“We are not all poets, nor can we write Shakespearean prose, and that’s probably not what our loved one wants to hear anyway. They want to hear our voice.”

3. Look for Types of Sources to Draw Inspiration

Draw inspiration from play

According to Dr. Holloway, “individuals composing love letters quoted a wide range of literary sources including passages from the Bible, the Book of Common Prayers, poems, novels, and plays.”

Use your imagination to set the mood for your letter writing, or visit places that will remind you of a romantic scene between you and your partner.

Draw inspiration from your past together and communicate it “I think it is a useful way of communicating the love and importance of that person,” Jen Adams.

4. Add Meat to Your Letter to Make It Rich and Valuable

Add meat to the letter

Dr. Sally said, “A love letter that is too short might indicate a lack of sincerity, or commitment to the recipient. This was especially true in the past, where recipients paid for postage once a letter arrived – hence it had to be worth paying for.”

Although, this may not be the case today, it is important you spend time making every word count and passing your essential details in your love letter.

Make the recipient spend some reasonable amount of time on your letter.

This is not necessarily about length but the structure of the letter, choice of words and so on, point of references (how important she is to you, times you spent together, how she added value to your life).

5. Encourage Them to Think About the Future

Let's grow old together

“If it’s a true love letter, you want to encourage them to also think about your future together. It doesn’t have to be, ‘Let’s get married,’ but, ‘I hope we can continue to have these shared moments.’”

7 Reasons You Should Write Your Crush a Love Letter

Reasons to write letter to your crush
  • Women wants to hear how you feel about them and a letter can give a detailed account
  • We highly esteem our crushes, making it difficult to approach them
  • You can express your sincere feelings through a love letter
  • She can read the letter several times to reanalyze your words which can make her fall in love
  • We make goddess out of our crushes so a letter can help you take your time to express your feelings without stammering
  • Because of the respect we have for our crushes, it is not easy to look them in the eyes and profess our love
  • You have time think of the right words to use

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Crushes are highly esteemed, feared and respected, making them very tedious to approach. The deepest enthusiastic love affair is the one dedicated to your crush.

Like new love, there’re stars in the skies, moon over your head, and your heart race fiercely as the dragon of Khaleesi in “A Game of Thrones”. That is how it feels to have a crush. For this admiration, you can hardly stand before your crush and confess your inner feelings. But writing a love letter to your crush can save the day.

You must be ready to be ignored or worst have a negative feedback. It can take time to woo a woman and win her love so, don’t be discouraged. If things don’t look positive, move on.