161+ Texts After Spending the Night: Romantic Texts

In today’s digital age, where connections are forged through text, there’s a desire to reach out to your partner after spending the night to reflect the emotions, desires, and playful moments that unfolded.

However, crafting that text can feel intimidating. In this article, I will give you guidance to help you overcome the intimidation and express yourself with confidence.

Fully 85% of U.S. adults own a cell phone, and 80% of cell phone owners say they send and receive text messages, according to the Pew Research Center.

The encouraging finding from this study is that your girlfriend or boyfriend is probably interested in or well-versed in texting.

Hence expressing your feelings after sex through a text message will receive the attention it deserves.

After Sex Talk #1: 141+ things to say to your partner after sex to make your partner want more.

What to Text After Spending the Night Together

• Something dirty is on my mind.
• Let us live for the beauty of our own reality. Charles Lamb
• Can’t forget how the room was filled with the soft whispers of our breaths.
• I was wondering if I should text you after spending the night, then I got excited by this beautiful memory. The time you were ridding me endlessly.
• This union was a tangible connection that lingers, leaving us yearning for more.
• Our lasting intimate connection and union will live forever.
• The memories, emotions, and sensations of last night continue to resonate with me.
• My mom asked me where I spent the night.
• Had a dream about us, we were lonely in a flower garden.
• I have something nasty on my mind tonight.

• I was a late starter on the romantic front. I didn’t start dating until I was in my 30s. Geri Halliwell
• I feel like you don’t know if someone’s equipped for a romantic relationship until they’re out of their twenties. Lena Dunham
• Everything is just so much more romantic and real when it’s yours and it’s private. Dove Cameron
• If a June night could talk, it would probably boast it invented romance. Bernard Williams
• Vulnerability is the essence of romance. It’s the art of being uncalculated, the willingness to look foolish, the courage to say, ‘This is me, and I’m interested in you enough to show you my flaws with the hope that you may embrace me for all that I am but, more importantly, all that I am not.’ Ashton Kutcher

• I don’t know if this is the right time to text this [wait until she replies, then, say this] just want to say thanks. [the first part will make her curious to reply]
• Didn’t know I’d beg any man in my life.
• I keep telling myself I will never let loose again but my body keeps giving up quickly when I see you.
• It is still early in the morning and you are the first person I want to hear from. How is your morning? Is it romantic like us?
• Can’t wait to see you naked.

• Your hands performed more magic than anything else I encountered.
• Thought you said you were not into it. See how I made you go wild.
• Those little moments were defining moments.
• Am crazy about you right now.
• Bought a new sexy pant but won’t put it on unless I come to your end.

• I am suffering from love addiction.
• I am wearing your favorite nightie.
• When we first met, what was going through your mind?
• Does it bother you when I get naughty?
• Would you watch an adult movie with me?

• Are you a good kisser?
• Which do you enjoy most? Back or front?
• Imagine us getting wet in heavy rain in front of your house.
• My friend is sitting on my lap, are you jealous?
• I’m I beautiful?

• Tell me one thing you like about my body. Don’t be shy and be honest.
• What do you think of when taking your bath?
• Have you ever been seduced at work?
• I didn’t want to leave.
• It was so sweet.
• Do you discuss it after a night together?
• If I enter your bedroom without knocking and you are naked, what would you do?
• What was your most cherished moment in bed like and who was that with?
• Have you ever got your fingers dirty with your workmate?

Romantic Messages to Make Her Happy

• I needed someone special; my eyes lay upon your face – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I was so touched by the softness of your eyes – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Your presence responded to my need and wish – Frederick Douglas Harper
• When I first looked at you, I saw something special with you, in you, and between us – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Light of your lovely face aglow – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Come quietly to me in peace and burning desire, and let me receive you around me as one – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I’ve waited long across lifetimes for your face in the parade of many – Frederick Douglas Harper
• At the first touch of you, I knew you were sculpted to my arms’ embrace – Frederick Douglas Harper

• So effortlessly and pleasurably we danced as playful birds suspended in flight – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Permit me to hold you once more – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I have sought your image without knowledge of your existence
• Come with me, be with me, romance with me, and let our eternal love be an unending evening of special things shared – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Come with me to the sacred temple – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Yes, be my wife, be with me in this special moment of the ceremony, and touch tenderly and ever slowly your lips upon mine – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I will love you, without condition, for as long as I can and as long as you want me to – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Let us write a script in our hearts, and let us play it out from moment to moment in spontaneity – Frederick Douglas Harper

• Let me touch you in the morning years of your womanhood, and make you the better lady you must eventually be – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Let me love you in the morning of your womanhood – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Let me hold your heart next to mine – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Let the warmth of your deepest breath massage the perceptiveness of my ear. That I may feel your life grow in my arms, and that I may live again through the life of your love – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Fine woman of creamy texture – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Fine woman of svelte neck, straight back, and sturdy hips – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Romantic love is giving for the joy of giving, sharing for the sake of sharing, and enjoying each other for the pleasure of each other – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I’ve lived today in the wake from morn to night this date, just to hear your voice once more across the miles – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I’ve lived all day just to hear the breath and sigh of your sweet voice for me – Frederick Douglas Harper

• I’ve lived all day, in my patient way, just to hear you say, “I love you.” – Frederick Douglas Harper
• Your vibrations bring warm news to my ear, good news I like to hear – Frederick Douglas Harper
• I’m glad I met you; together, we have made each other better – Frederick Douglas Harper
• You touched my heart with your fingers.
• It was a time to remember.
• You touched me with the tender tips of your fingers.
• You are a beautiful woman and a fine lady.
• Lie down and feel yourself in our presence.
• Let us think of nothing except our feelings.

• I could build you a bridge that spans the ocean wide but the greatest gift I give you would be to stand by your side – Celine Deon
• Some can criticize and sit in judgment of us but they can’t take away the love that lives inside us always – Celine Deon
• You came out of my dream and made it real – Celine Deon
• In the middle of the night, I’m going down ’cause I want you – Celine Deon
• I won’t let my heart control my head, but you are my only – Celine Deon
• I make my journey through eternity I keep the memory of you and me inside – Celine Deon
• Waking up alone in a room that still reminds me – Celine Deon
• Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, and penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope – Maya Angelou

Flirty Things to Say Over Text After Sex

You should flirt with a girl to keep her interested after sleeping with her. Text her things that will start a conversation. Make your texts simple, cultivating, and meaningful.

You can send these texts to him or her after a night stand, a fun night together, or when you are in a relationship for a long.

• Now I see why your ex keeps chasing after you.
• No matter what you do or what happens, I am not going to leave you.
• I am glad I married you.
• It’s a country boy’s dream to have a woman like you. So glad you came.
• I know this was your fantasy, and I am deeply happy to be the one to fulfill it.

• Next time you come over to my place, you know what I will be doing? I will be shaving those sexy legs on my bed.
• And do you know what I will do too? I will shave your pretty face – lol
• It’s dinner time, come turn the light down for me.
• There are a thousand reasons why I love you. One is how you touch me. Another is how you take care of me like a baby and another is how you kiss me.
• Come over this night let’s swim in my pool, I’m feeling so much hit here.

• You know what? I love how you hugged me from behind and gave me a kiss on the back of my neck. Your kiss is all over my neck and your arms are stacked at my back.
• The music you play was my favorite and it really made me enjoy you.
• I know my mom is acting funny but I don’t care about that.
• We should go for a horse ride this weekend. I will be available.
• I don’t know why I am so much in love with you. I want to see you every second and talk to you every minute.

• I know you love me because you act like you do.
• This weekend, let’s sketch our dream house and how we want each room to look, and how our landscape will be designed.
• Hey! You almost killed me.
• My thighs hurt badly.
• I wasn’t expecting what happened last night. It was amazing.

• I had to sit on hot water this morning. It was too much to take but I like it.
• I’ll spend the holiday with you. And it’ll be all day and night. Let’s see who wins – hahaha
• It’s a week now but it still feels fresh. You are hot.
• You see, last night was a moment to recall. Your hairstyle, and your dress code: the combination killed it, and not forgetting your soft voice.
• If you were here I’ll sauté you with kisses until you are wet like you were beaten by a heavy rain in the middle of New York.

• Am about to take my bath. Come let’s bath together.
• You are the love of my life, my superhero, your strength makes me safe on your bed, my pillow in the middle of the night, and you are my softboard.
• The feeling is evergreen, and so is our love, let’s grow old together.
• Can’t wait for another shower together.
• Last night was the best time together ever.

• You put me to sleep. Didn’t know when I slept.
• I am glad you enjoyed it too. I really love it last night.
• I know today is not a great day for you but I am always here for you.
• I miss your smile.
• I love you when you dance.

• You guys are funny in your house.
• Now your mom calls me by my nickname – she’s funny.
• Drunk in your affection.
• I hurt you in many ways, but you are still here for me. I know you love me; I can see it in your eyes.

Things to Say to Impress Your Boyfriend During Sex

If you want to get naughty with your boyfriend during sex or after, these phrases can keep you going. You can say these to him in person or in text to keep him interested.

• What did you do to the thing? It’s way better than it had ever been.
• I want it fast and quick. Don’t stop, I want it hard.
• I want something that will make me cry.
• I want it so hard and stiff that when I take it, it will make me scream and cry loud.
• You are honey in there. I don’t want you to get out.
• I want you to kiss me, I want your touch so badly, caress my breast.
• Play dirty with me.
• You are big between your thighs; no girl should play with you.
• Your thing is so small and tiny when it’s flaccid. Was wondering what it could do until it took its full shape, I almost run through the wall. Honestly, I was scared.
• Where and when did you learn these skills? You are becoming something else.
• Let me sit on and be in charge.

Romantic Things to Do After Spending the Night Together

Spending quality time together can strengthen your relationship. You don’t have to make this effort only after spending the night together.

Make plans to grow your relationship.

• Meet and take a stroll, it will make you both happy and you’ll have a lot to say to each other.
• Visit him the next day, sit close and stare at him for a long, and smile. He’ll be lost.
• Write a love story describing the night and print it.
• If she spent the night with you, wake up early and prepare breakfast.
• Bath her, wash her hair, and dress her.
• Watch a romantic scene together or read a romantic book.
• Ask her friend to tell her you are missing her badly.
• Design a birthday card if it’s her birthday.
• Call him on the phone, ask if he has a few minutes, sing him a love song, and hang up.

• Talk about everything that happened last night and the parts you enjoyed.
• Send your partner a love letter affirming your love for him/her.
• Send erotic videos/pictures via chat.
• Stop by the flower shop to buy her flower after work.
• Watch the moon together.
• Send an appreciation note in the morning. “Last night was all I ever wanted. Thank you. See you in a little bit.”
• Play with her waist beads.
• Talk about how you admire her waist beads. See the importance of waist beads in lovemaking
• Fix her waist beads.

Ways to Say You Want to Make Love in a Text

• I want to gift you a massage.
• Guess what? I’m naked on my bed.
• Kissing and cuddling under a warm blanket is on my mind. Are you in?
• Come dressed in sexy pants.
• You forgot your red wine on my table. You could come to get it this evening. I’ll be home 8 pm.
• The love bite isn’t healing, my doctor says I need another to heal.
• I have a word for you but I’ll tell you when you come over.
• I scratched my nipple in the bathhouse and it hurts, come apply meds on it.
• Dear, I want to come and pick you up tonight.
• I am feeling so lonely, I need you here.

• I have an assignment and I can’t really figure things out. I’ll come over for your assistance.
• I don’t want to come to your place today but I have something to show you.
• Noticed you are out of provision so I bought some for you. Will be there to deliver them. I won’t stay long.
• When you are at his place and he is busy with other things but you want sex: Tell him you want to go. He will quickly get the message.
• Are you missing me?
• What did you prepare? It’s been a long I ate your food.
• I’ll spend the weekend at your end.

• I heard you have a new girl and she’s coming to your place tonight that’s why you don’t want me around.
• When you are at his place: Let’s go to bed honey it’s late.
• Help me take off my cloth honey.
• Hey! Let’s make this Friday a special holiday.
• I want to take you out on Christmas Eve.
• Hey, heard of the new Tyler Perry film? It’s showing in the theater this weekend. I have two tickets. I know you like Tyler.
• Touch him in his erogenous areas like you don’t mean it

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Many people wish to text their partner after sex but cannot figure out the right thing to say.

Whether you are thinking of a sweet long message after lovemaking, texts to send the morning after hooking up, or a good night text to keep him or her interested, follow these 4 rules.

1. Prep what to say before texting
2. Talk about something interesting that happened when you hooked up
3. Tell him/her how you feel about her performance
4. Talk about what you did that made him/her excited or turned her off

What is your favorite text after spending the night and which one will you be texting your partner? Let me know in the comments.